Sunshine, Our Beloved Indian Ringneck Has Passed On




Sunshine our Indian ringneck passed away Saturday nite (May 9th 2009). He was about 20, Catherine hand fed him from 5 weeks old. It amazing how such a small light weight creature's death could elicit such a strong torrent of emotions. How, why did he die? We'll never be sure. No necropsy - he's already buried. We surmise a stroke, he went from a happy healthy bird to downhill and out in a matter of a few hours.

His grave is a fitting place for a bird to rest. Under the trees filled with the life of birds busy congregating amongst the myriad of  bird feeders and bird houses we have deployed on our small lot at a Northwest Indiana campground. Yes he was there with us when we played. as some of you know but many don't, Sunshine was with us when we worked too. He was never not with us.

Since moving to the new Birdie Boutique, now living  just 2-1/2 blocks away, Catherine walks to work at least 2 hours before I get up. Once up, the first place I went was to Sunshine's main cage a beautiful 10 year old California Cage (no longer in business) 36" x 30" play top. His cage light and table lamp (with the Rose Breasted Cockatoo hand painted on a black background) would be on since 8:00AM and he'd be patiently waiting for me to open the door.

Although fully flighted, he always chose to drop Baby on the floor and make the trek by foot into the Kitchen. He'd climb up the 3 foot ladder to an old Prevue playtop used solely as a stand, knowing I would do 2 things. One, retrieve baby and place on top of the cage AND feed the two of them breakfast.

Seven days a week Sunshine got a small dish of slightly frozen vegetables to go along with the several other blends of food in dishes throughout our home. He'd munch away while I got organized for work. As it got closer to leaving time I'd start saying "it's time to go to work." His head would pick up, he'd give his "I'm ready" chirp.

Some days I would put the carrier on a low table and move one of his cage ladders to the carrier doorfrom the floor, toss in Baby and the dish of veggies then finish my own tasks. Inevitably I could count on Sunshine patiently waiting inside the carrier for me to close the door and zip the flaps. Arriving at work, Catherine would reverse the process and install bird and assistant  in his AE 24" x 22" opening dometop cage.

Sunshine would spend the day, usually quiet unless, we were eating. He always needed to have a piece of whatever was on our plate. Sounded like a smoke alarm with a waek battery until he got a share of our gastronimic treatsuress. At closing time, back in the carrier then home where he usually spent the evening on his wrought iron play stand (no longer produced) watching TV with us until 8:00PM, birdie bed time. The timer would shut off his lights and if he hadn't already put himself to bed in his cage, he was happy to be carried over with some leftovers from dinner and of course Baby.

During warmer weather, almost 30 weekends a year, he'd quietly sit in his carrier for hours while we drove to Indiana. He'd stay inside our narrow trailer watching Mom through the window or sit outside in his porch cage, confusingly trying to talk to the Woodpeckers and Bluebirds. The day after he passed, I loaded his 24" x  22" Hoei (no longer available) "inside" aluminum cage with wooden straoge base and an HQ 22" x 17 "  his "front porch"  cage leaving the 3 foot out door aviary he never liked.

Now I know if you're following this, you have to be counting cages and stands. Literally a couple of hundred pounds of wrought iron (and I didn't mention the wood table top stands and manzanita stands he visited once and a while at home) to support a pet weighing maybe 3 or 4 ounces.

See I've been meaning to write about this for a while and feel now is a good time to verbalize our thoughts, our philosphy if you will, on bird companionship. A case could have been made as we watched Sunshine fail through the night, that we should have scrambled up to Chicago for an emergency vet intervention, we chose not to.

We discussed it and felt he had lived a very good life, his end had come. There was nothing more we could do. We had done (almost) everything right for 2 decades. We were at peace as was he. We were driven by the principals that we operate Windy City Parrot. At the end-of-the-day, birds should not be held captive by humans. It's not their choice, they we're given the gift of flight.

Yet we lock them in bird jails the majority of the day and night. That said, we feel it is our (mine & Catherine's) obligation to be an advocate for the birds. We'll share our thoughts on bird care driven by the interaction of more than fifty thousand bird supply internet orders while all the time having a bright yellow bird watch over us. We will tell our customers when we feel they are right AND when we feel they are wrong in their approach to exotic bird care. 
 
Our answers will always be driven by what is best for the bird. "My bird is messy, is there a way to make him neater?" NO - birds are messy, their function in nature is to spreads seeds. We'll suggest ways to reduce the mess but if you can't handle the mess.............
and so it goes.

Sure, Sunshine had a lot of equipment because we're in the business, it's amazing the amount of real estate freed up in our home, All that space is empty now as are the feelings we have with no happy chortling to remind us we knew he was saying "it's great to be with you guys."

We did everything we could to make Sunshine feel he was part of the family, not just a pet. So the next time you call or email us, you know where we're coming from.

We sure miss him :-(

 

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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:11 AM Earla wrote:
    I am so sorry about the loss of your bird. I agree with you totally though, he had a good life and his time had come. If only all birds were so lucky as to have owners like you and your wife.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:16 AM Pam Sheridan wrote:
    I am so sorry about Sunshine. I have a beautiful light blue indian ringneck named Bluebelle. She is the light of our lives. My family thinks I am crazy when I talk about her and all my concerns, but she is a member of our family (me and my husband. She is 6 years old (we think) we got her from a pet store where someone dropped her off. I can't imagine life without her.
    Again, my sympathies. Pam Sheridan
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:17 AM Judy wrote:
    So sorry to hear of your loss. The loss of a pet is the loss of a loved one and my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Thank you for being good parrot parents.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:17 AM Cindy wrote:
    I'm so sorry to hear about Sunshine. What a lovely tribute to such a sweetie pie. You and your wife are in our thoughts.
    Cindy
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:21 AM Rachel wrote:
    so sorry to hear about Sunshine. What a wonderful little boy he was for you - and he was blessed to have you as his parents.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:22 AM Lisa wrote:
    I am truely sorry to hear about your loss. May your sweet ray of light be flying high in the air and looking down with joy. This brings tears to my eyes. Its always hard to lose a pet. I've had my share and still continue on. My life would never be fullfilled with out my pets. A life is never complete until you have loved an animal. God bless you and yours. And keep up the great work with your store. I like shopping on your site when I can.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:23 AM Karen wrote:
    so sorry, I know you are hurting
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:27 AM Wendi Nasser wrote:
    My condolences on your enormous loss. It is never easy when we loose someone we love; I've been there one too many times. I'm sure he is waiting for you to join with him again someday. Peace to you all.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:28 AM Irena Schulz wrote:
    I am so very sorry to hear about Sunshine's passing! Anyone who has ever lost a bird knows how heartwrenching that is. Birds are family members and are every bit as devastating when they pass...they have human characteristics and can never be replaced by another because of their individuality. So very sorry!
    Warmly,
    Irena
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:33 AM RaChelle wrote:
    Thank you, from Sunshine, for letting him go fly in heaven. He'll be waiting for you. What a lucky family you are!

    What kind of a trailer do you have? I want to take my conure camping but I can't ask my dogs to not be a terriers. Too risky!
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:37 AM Kim Rascher wrote:
    We are so sorry for your loss. We met Sunshine(and baby) while shopping at your warehouse. He was a very lucky birdy to have you as his family.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:38 AM Laurie Moede wrote:
    I'm so sorry to hear of Sunshines passing. I too know the heartache of loosing a winged friend. I have lost many human friends and the greif is the same.
    Thank you for giving Sunshine such a wonderful life. There's one more bird in birdie heaven that is singing your praise!
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:38 AM Rose M wrote:
    Thank you for sharing your Sunshine with me. I love to hear about the greatness parrots give their owners. Sounds like you have many great memories of Sunshine you can keep in your heart. Take Care!
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:41 AM Vicky wrote:
    I was so very sorry to hear of the loss of Sunshine. I'm sure he was the light of your life as I know mine are to me. It is difficult for some people to understand the bond a person can have with a bird, but it is a very real, very strong bond and it rips your heart out when you have to say good-bye. My heart goes out to you in your loss. Best regards, Vicky from Alaska.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:41 AM Terry Espinosa wrote:
    My prayers and thoughts go out to you in your loss of Sunshine. Know that your beloved companion/family member is waiting on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge for you, and is already saying "I'm ready."
    I know the loss you feel and I pray your pain will heal in time, as you remember the wonderful years you had with him.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:48 AM Peggy Moran wrote:
    Hello,

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I met Sunshine at your store, and saw what an integrated member of your life he was. I'm sure his small presence will be greatly missed, but I hope you are comforted knowing you gave him lovingly motivated care.

    Kind Regards,
    Peggy Moran
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:52 AM marion wrote:
    I know how you feel about Sunshine.

    I have a conure who will be 19 this year. Never sick a day in his life, but I know he will not live forever.

    He was the first of my 3 and I feel I know his soul. I know him so well and I would feel incomplete without his noisy, crazy ways.

    My condolences for your loss.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:52 AM Charlotte Soliven wrote:
    I am sorry to hear about the loss of Sunshine, your beloved feathered friend. I know how much it hurts. I lost my cockatiel after 22yrs. I will always have Bobby in my heart, as I know you will Sunshine. I know they are both flying free with their new flock.
    God Bless you for taking such great care of one of Gods little feathered creations.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:56 AM michelle c wrote:
    so sorry to read this. Rex and I loved seeing Sunshine on our visits. Hope your memories bring you comfort and healing.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 10:00 AM Nancy wrote:
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your Sunshine.
    He sounds so precious and I know he was..and still is.
    It sounds to me that you all had a great life together. What more is there?!
    Best Wishes.
    ~Nancy
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 10:01 AM Sharon Smith wrote:
    I am so sorry for your loss. Yes, they are part of the family and I know all to well that quiet and emptiness when they pass. My condolences. It sure sounds like you were good "Parr-ents".
    Sunshine is chirping in birdie heaven, I am sure! Sharon Smith and My baby, Kally
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 10:02 AM Lynn in Owensboro KY wrote:
    I am so sorry to hear about little Sunshine's passing. It sounds like he had such a happy life with you. I would love to hear more about his little assistant "Baby". :) I am thinking of you all and your loss.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 10:09 AM Dusty wrote:
    I am so very sorry for your loss. Sunshine sounds like she was quite an inspiration to you in your daily lives. Though you are grieving now, your wonderful memories of Sunshine will keep you complete during the process. I was so touched to read about Sunshine and although I spend a lot of time with my lovebirds, today and in the days to come I will think of Sunshine and spend even more time with my babies. I just had two eggs hatch and one more to go and one of them I will name Sunshine! My daughter and I always have this little thing that we say to each other when we are preparing for a difficult day or a particular event or procedure that may be a little scary. We always say "angels on your shoulder". So I say to you, "Sunshine on your shoulder" forever! My thoughts are with you.
    Dusty
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 10:18 AM Maddy Gollogly wrote:
    I think of Sunshine & his little birdie & how he would bring it to Catherine & say,"dirty," so she would wash it. He was a treasure & your hearts must be very heavy; I've been there. Peace to you both & keep the good memories.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 10:19 AM Mary wrote:
    So sorry for your loss. Sunshine sounds like a wonderful bird, and also a lucky one to have had such great flockmates as you.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 10:24 AM Gayle wrote:
    Your article brought tears to my eyes. I am so very sorry for your loss, because it is a great loss. So many people aren't aware of the wonderful, bright, loving companions that birds can be. My beloved Cisco (sun conure) passed on two years ago and yet I still think about her and quietly grieve. I am sure the same will be said of all my other beloved parrots. Again, I am so sorry.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 10:39 AM Sue Reinhart wrote:
    I share your sadness - Sunshine had a good life - now his soul resides across the Rainbow Bridge, bringing joy to all beloved pets who traveled across it before him. You will always have all the memories of his life with you. He would want you to share your lives with another special bird - there are always birds in rescue situations - perhaps you could help one of them.
    Fondly,
    Sue Reinhart
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 10:40 AM Jodi wrote:
    I couldn't agree with you more, birds were meant to be free to fly and we have no right to imprison them. That is why I only have rescued birds in my care and as each one reaches his "time," he will be surely missed as your little darling, but he will not be replaced by another one unless it is a rescue situation. Because I am home, my birds are allowed the freedom to come and go in and out of their cages all day under my supervision. However, even that freedom doesn't make up for the loss of their freedom to live in their natural habitat. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss and my heart goes out to you.

    A fellow bird advocate
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 10:52 AM joy gross wrote:
    I am so very, very sorry for your loss.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 10:52 AM Gina Lane wrote:
    As I read your memorial to Sunshine, my eyes welled up with tears. I feel your loss and share your pain. I love these creatures with all my heart. I have one grey, 2 tiels, 1 lovebird and a green cheek conure. Since I too have fallen in love with these small, but mighty creatures, I think about their plight doomed to cages. Since my birds could not survive without me now, I do let them fly in their room (the small birds) and my grey is able to go in and out of her cage at anytime unless I go to work. I take her outdoors and try to expand her horizons as much as possible. Where I do become concerned about birds is at birdstores where there are so many cramped in cages in the front and back of the store. They are handled from time to time but it bothers me going in there. They'll never have the freedom God intended. But through Sunshine's loss, and probably before then, you too, share the same feelings as I do and you are in a position to educate those who have birds and those who are going to buy them. Each day I see a macaw in a lonely pet store, sitting each day in a cage hour after hour and day after day. I have contacted our local animal enforcements and the Humane Society. I feel so sorry for this bird but the owners have said it is a cranky bird, one that can't be handled and so there it sits til it comes to its end. Sunshine lead a beautiful life and had it better than most. Because of our birds, I have also become actively involved regarding the cruelty to chickens. These birds are penned 5 to 6 to a cage their entire lives til slaughtered. Their beaks are seared off with a hot blade to keep them from pecking. They can't spread their wings or root in the ground like birds were made to do. KFC buys birds from companies who kick and stomp birds or slam them against the wall. Many are scalded alive. If you can extend your educational devices to help all animals, we sure would appreciate it. You can find more info at PETA.org or HSUS.org. I lost a sweet blue crowned conure named Carmen several years ago. I still get weepy thinking of her but I get weepy thinking of my dog that passed and the millions of animals that are suffering daily at the hands of humans. I just love animals and I know we share a bond that is stronger than many things. I'm sorry for your loss and hope time heals the pain. IN the meantime, on with your activism to help our feathered friends. Sincerely, Gina Lane
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 10:53 AM Joni wrote:
    I'm so very sorry for your loss. I too have loved and lost many feathered and furry companions over the years. That may be why I now have seven rescue parrots and three dogs (some of them are rescues as well). When this type of thing happens, I wait until I'm ready and devote the love and attention that I had for my companions on an animal that sorely needs a home.

    My heart goes out to you both.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 11:05 AM Linda Lee Kristbaum wrote:
    Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your sweet Sunshine. I feel your pain as if it were my own. In the last 2 months I have also lost my 20 yr. old cat and 13 1/2 yr. old GSD. My U2 was my only solace even though he was grieving too. Although we all know our companions, our "babies", will not be with us forever, when the day comes that they leave us it never seems as if we've been with them long enough...and there will be an empty place in our lives for a very long time. Sunshine had terrific parents who loved (and spoiled) her and made her life as good as it could be, by being her flock. You can be sure she loved you too! I'm sure her spirit is out there watching you from the heavens, with all the rest of our companion animals by her side. They are all God's special creatures, and even if the humans on this earth don't make it to the "Golden gates", all the animals of the world deserve to be and I'm sure are already up there. My thoughts are with you and Sunshine. Take care, Linda
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 11:13 AM Cheryl wrote:
    I remember meeting Sunshine briefly when you were still at the warehouse location. Even though I was only there for a short while, he made a BIG impression me while I checked out. What a wonderful and sweet bird. Even though I barely knew him, I am grieving with you.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 11:16 AM Kathe Mauldin wrote:
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved Sunshine. It sounds as if he had an absolutely wonderful life with you and all the freedom he enjoyed.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 11:20 AM patricia wrote:
    I'm so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful life you shared with Sunshine. Thanks for telling his story. I have a 16 year old Barraband's parakeet.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 11:36 AM Lynn Adams wrote:
    I am so sorry to hear about your beloved Sunshine passing, but after reading your story, I can see he had a wonderful life. Your family spent much of their day with Sunshine and he had a great life until the end. When we lost our first bird, a cockatiel, at 19, we grieved for a long time but are happy she is buried in our backyard where we have a special place just for her. Take care.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 12:57 PM Terrie wrote:
    My heart goes out to you both. Your story reminded me of our little lovebird, rescued from an abusive home. We had him for 3 years and when he passed, my husband and I cried. Him holding him in his hand and petting his feathers was the first time he ever got to truly touch him as he was always so afraid of the "hand". he too is buried under trees in our backyard. They are such a blessing and give so much joy. They are forever in our hearts as they were in our homes.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 1:02 PM Debra Schildhouse wrote:
    I am so sad to hear about Sunshine. I fear the day I might find my 9 year old green cheek conure, Monty sick or dead. Some time ago I bought a "baby" toy for Monty, who never liked any toys. He still loves his "baby" too, so I'll always have a reminder of Sunshine in that way.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 1:10 PM Amy Blake wrote:
    I am so very sorry for your loss, it is a pain that not many will ever understand, the loss of a loved one leaves an empty spot in the heart that cant be filled, My deepest sympathies...you did wonderful by Sunshine, and you have all those great memories to reflect upon.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 1:20 PM IthacaNancy wrote:
    The space left after losing a wonderful companion like Sunshine is a painful wound. It sounds like you provided such a rich life for him and enjoyed his unique personality. Thanks for sharing his story with us. Thanks also for the service you provide through your work, helping the rest of us provide the best for our birds.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 1:20 PM Deb Ryan wrote:
    My deepest sympathy on the loss of your sweet Sunshine. As others have stated, he sure had a wonderful life and a very loving family. Keep those memories close to your heart and he'll be with you always.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 1:43 PM Sue wrote:
    I am sorry to hear of your loss. After reading Sunshine's story, I can tell how much he was loved.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 1:46 PM Sherie wrote:
    I am so sorry about Sunshine. I saw her in your store when I was there for the first time about a month ago. It sounds like she had a wonderful life.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 2:00 PM Sheila wrote:
    I am so sorry for your lose of your Sunshine. I too just lost my African Gray. I handfed him also. He was a part of our lives. We miss him. We know how you feel. He is now flying free.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 2:51 PM Walter wrote:
    Catherine,
    I know the emotions you are going through. My wife and I lost our Pepe [BFA] a few years back. It is truly amazing how much these wonderous creatures melt into our lives when we treat them as our companions. They learn our qwerks as well as we learn theirs. We too, have our beloved buried in our yard by our trailer in Western Illinois. [We live in Chicago, and you may remember me-I've been to your store a few times esp. when you had the open houses]. There is a definate void left. We have since adopted a LCA and she is sooo sweet, but after 4 years, I still think of my Pepe, and will still dwell on his personality with a tear in my eye. He was a big part of our family/flock. And I know how Sunshine was for you. We will always have the blessing of the memories of our loved ones embedded in our hearts.
    Wally
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 2:55 PM Lynn wrote:
    Losing a member of your family is so hard, be it a human or bird. My birds are not only companions but truly calm me down, make me laugh and, yes, make me cry. Fly free Sunshine.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 4:59 PM Donna and Bo Bear wrote:
    My thoughts are with you both. I know how heavy your heart is, I lost Sam a Jardine Parrot on May 29, 2008, he was and will always be my soulmate. I have rescued an African Grey named Bo Bear and she has surely wiggled her little grey personality into my broken heart. As you know you are not alone, there are many that share your pain. Sunshine will be waiting for you over the Rainbow Bridge. Thank you for advocating for our precious winged angels. I will light a candle tonight in honor of your Sunshine.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 5:00 PM Carol wrote:
    Thank you so much for writing this tribute and showing us a film of Sunshine. I grieve for your loss. I have a 16 year old Conure who I love dearly and this article will help me face when he has to leave this orb.
    Thanks to your tribute, Sunshine will always be remembered by all of us.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 5:53 PM Donna wrote:
    I am so saddend by this news. When you had the store on Milwaukee Ave. I worked close by and would walk to the store on bad days to visit Sunshine to cheer up my afternoon. Sunshine never failed to make me smile plus I could always pick up goodies for my babies while I was visiting. When I drove in to work the morning after the fire I was in tears worried about the fate of this sweet bird and was so happy when I got news that he was safe at home that evening. Just know that he touched so many others. You are in my thoughts as he passes to the Rainnow Bridge.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 7:47 PM Judy Spear wrote:
    I am so sorry to hear of your loss - tears welled up in my eyes as I read this. Sounds like your little buddy had a wonderful life. God Bless
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 8:29 PM Nansye wrote:
    Please add my condolensces also, as my heart is breaking for your loss. I, too, have mourned the loss of all my pets, still, that i have lost over the years - cats, dogs and birds, too. You did the right thing for your bird, as this is simply the cycle of life and i know sunshine will be there for you when you begin again, with a new "baby." He was a beautiful bird and i wish you a speedy recovery as you heal from his loss.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:14 PM John Pugzles wrote:
    My deepest sympathies to you both on the passing of Sunshine. You certainly held up your end of the deal to be faithful companions to him, as he was to you. I am sure his spirit will dwell peacefully in your minds, hearts, and souls.
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  • Tuesday, May 12, 2009 9:44 PM Nancy O'Connell wrote:
    Dear Catherine and Mitch,
    I'm so sorry to hear about Sunshine. I know you must miss him very much. He had a wonderful, happy life with you. I saw him many times with his 'baby' and he always made me laugh. My thoughts are with you tonight.
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  • Wednesday, May 13, 2009 3:06 AM Carole Van Hoose wrote:
    I'm so sorry to read about Sunshine. He has crossed the Bridge, though, and is with my Cherry (Red Lory) and Bandit(BF Amazon) and many others and will welcome you one day. Alex is also there, so Sunshine is in good company. He was obviously well-loved and cared for. My little Tinkerbell (Gray Cockatiel) is also there and will wolf-whistle at Sunshine! We miss them, but they are happy and well and waiting for us. Bless you all.
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  • Wednesday, May 13, 2009 7:14 PM Susan wrote:
    Sunshine was very blessed to have you. Your story was beautiful.
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  • Wednesday, May 13, 2009 10:56 PM Deborah Younce wrote:
    I know that words do not mean a lot at a time like this, just know many people appreciate the way a little feathered fellow or gal can steal a heart forever. You were lucky to be blessed to share life with this darling bird, and so was Sunshine blessed to be with you. Sincere condolences, Debi, Michigan
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  • Wednesday, May 13, 2009 10:59 PM Kalani Nicholls wrote:
    Thank you for sharing Sunshine's story. I am trying to give my bird the best care and your site is helping me out tremendously. My condolences and keep up the good work. Many appreciate it.
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  • Friday, May 15, 2009 12:06 AM Veronica Talpas wrote:
    Only a bird parent could write the story of Sunshine.Having suffered through a similar circumstance at the loss of a treasured bird companion, I feel your pain. You will never forget. The complex relationship you shared with such an intelligent being is something that will always be a part of you. Both of you were enriched by your life with Sunshine, as he was enriched by his life with you.
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  • Friday, May 15, 2009 7:42 AM Andrea Backus wrote:
    Mitch and Catherine, I am so sorry to hear about Sunshine. He was such a good birdie. Though I only actually met him once in person at your new birdie boutique, I've watched Mitch's you tube videos with his sidekick and thought he was absolutely adorable. The way he just stood there on his cage right beside you. You could tell he loved you and you loved him. My condolences to both of you. You gave Sunshine a great life. Andrea
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  • Saturday, May 16, 2009 12:01 AM Maggie Grimm wrote:
    My sincere condolences to you both. What a wonderful tribute you wrote for Sunshine. He was a lucky bird to have had 20 wonderful years with you. I know how bad you are hurting. Its very hard to lose a pet who is considered your child. You are in my thoughts and prayers as you mourn Sunshine's passing. God bless you both and Sunshine too.
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  • Saturday, May 16, 2009 2:41 PM Leslie wrote:
    My heartfelt condolonces on the loss of Sunshine. I truly believe that each animal that comes into our lives teaches us something and leaves some of its soul in our hearts. When you have healed enough, another winged love will find its way to you and the love affair will begin again. Best to you both.
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  • Wednesday, May 27, 2009 3:54 PM Sandi wrote:
    What a beautiful tribute to your " feathered friend " Sunshine. I believe that our beloved animals remain in a part of out heart & soul forever. They are our "forever friends"....
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  • Sunday, May 31, 2009 2:26 AM Sally wrote:
    I am truly sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you at this time. I know how heart breaking it is to lose family. NO words can express just how much we understand when one loses their loved one. You will never forget your loved Sunshine. Hugs
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  • Thursday, June 04, 2009 8:06 AM barbara wrote:
    Your article brought tears to my eyes. You were truly wonderful parents to your beautiful little Sunshine. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • Wednesday, February 17, 2010 11:59 AM John wrote:
    Even though you lost your friend and family member almost a year ago the heartbreak, I am sure is still present. I know as we lost our 1st cockatiel 16 years ago at age 8 and our second cockatiel about 4 months ago at age 16 to a tumor. We never treated our guys as pets they were family. I am so sorry to know that someone so apart of your every day goings on is has left you, nothing hurts more then the loss of a beloved pet. a year before the loss of Nicky 4 months ago we adopted a male and female SI Eclectus and they have helped absorb the pain of our loss. I hope that you have found another pet that helps buffer the difference you see in your life with out Sunshine. Love triumphs over all.
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